Unemployed: Gotta Swallow Your Pride
“What do you do for a living?” I was asked by another soccer dad on the sideline.
I wanted to lie. I was unemployed in a new city & embarrassed.
Six months after moving across the country, my job vaporized.
A few months later with no income, I was living on fumes with two little boys & my wife depending on me.
I felt like a loser.
As I watched my 4 yr-old play “swarmball” with his little teammates, I wondered how I would provide for my young family.
Honestly answering the soccer dad’s question was almost too much. I paused. “I’m unemployed.” I ashamedly replied. (Lying would have only made me feel worse.) “What’s your background?” he asked. “I’ve turned around & run advertising agencies.” I responded.
“Send me your resume. I just reengineered the marketing department for a large bank. They’re looking for someone like you.” he said.
At one of my lowest moments in my life, a complete stranger’s question had the potential to dramatically change a desperate situation. Had I given into the pride that was tempting me to lie, I would have missed it.
Within a few weeks, I had a job offer with a raise & a signing bonus. Crazy.
20 years later, that soccer dad & I are still friends. I thank God for the kindness of a stranger & for the unexpected blessing of swallowing my pride.
(Via: Gary Frey: LinkedIn)